I Still Support You! Fan Culture & Cognitive Dissonance

Blind faith is one helluva drug, ain’t it?

I’m almost 25, and throughout my life, I have loved, obsessed over, and blindly followed celebrities and shows and films to the point where my life had been consumed by them. It got easier and easier when the internet became more accessible, when I finally was allowed to have a computer in my room, when we could use the internet while my mum was chatting on the phone. It became easier when social media rolled out, when I got a smartphone, when I was so wired into what my faves were doing, where they were going, and who they were dating, that I could literally find out anything I wanted at the swipe of a screen.

While this celebrity obsession may have died down for me, it certainly hasn’t for teenagers and many adults across the globe. The internet is now rife with celebrity information and a new type of person who is there purely for you to adore. But of course, with an overexposure of information (and misinformation), comes nowhere to hide. Social media and the internet have created new ways in which people can clash with each other, whether that be in opinions (Twitter) or actions (Youtube). Things you might not have known about your favourite celebrity are surfaced, and thus you are faced with cognitive dissonance.

Cognitive Dissonance has been around since always, and I remember trying to learn about it during a sociology class about cults. It never truly stuck into my head until we all started having conversations about blind faith towards celebrities. Blind faith is usually linked to religion (the reason we were talking about it during a class on cults) but it can easily be adapted to celebrity and fandom culture.

Note: From now on, when I use the term “fandom”, I am not including communities who share their love of television shows, films, books, or fictional characters/couples.

Cognitive Dissonance is is the mental discomfort (psychological stress) experienced by a person who simultaneously holds two or more contradictory beliefs, ideas, or values. People experience cognitive dissonance when someone they love does something that goes against their values. So, you love or ‘stan’ a celebrity. You would do anything for them. You consume all  their content whether it be music, movies, or Youtube videos. However, they then go against something you believe in; you find out they take drugs, for example. There are many that would find this behavior to not be against their own beliefs. I mean hey, it’s not hurting anyone but themselves and it’s their body. What’s the problem? You end up justifying it to yourself and continue to believe this person is perfect.

This cycle continues on for a lot of people who blindly follow this celebrity and the celebrity will notice, eventually. For many celebrities, this is as far as it goes. Nobody is perfect, despite what your brain tells you when you look at a picture of Harry Styles. But there are some who will push and push your cognitive dissonance so far that eventually your blind faith will be shattered. And to be honest? This is a minority. If you’re already following someone’s life to this dangerous degree then I believe you’re more likely to let larger things slide… say, watching your favourite Youtuber film the body of a suicide victim in the Japanese forest of Aokigahara?

Celebrity culture, fandoms, ‘stanning’, the whole thing has become a marketable way of making a shit ton of cash for your faves and their team. And while I think it’s great to find friends who have the same interests as you (e.g. I’ve found a lot of friends through blogging and our love of books), I think there is a lot of ways in which celebrities, but more commonly social media influencers, do this.

  1. A collective fan name. The Jake Paulers, The Logang, Cumberbitches, Beliebers. Some of these are created by the fans, for the fans, and that’s as far as it goes. But it’s also a clever way to create, rather than a community, a ‘popular clique that you can only get in to if you buuuuuuy….
  2. Merch. T-shirts, hats, bags. This isn’t the same as a singer who sells albums. This would be if that same musician then brought out like…fidget spinners, or biros. A lot of the time, an influencer only brings out merch because there’s a demand and fair enough. But merch is a great way to influence your fans into thinking that they are a part of this group, but only if they have merch.
  3. Targeted tweets. This one is particularly popular with male viners/music.ly stars. You know the tweets, the one’s by Jacob Sartorius that say ‘You look so good today’ where it comes across that he’s speaking to you personally. While I feel Jacob Sartorius is quite young and maybe has a team of adults who does this for him (I mean he might understand how to exploit his fanbase but I’m not sure), I feel people like Cameron Dallas, Nash Grier and other white boy names I don’t know are especially guilty of it. You can also get targeted song lyrics, One Direction songs are full of them.

So, you are a part of the group, the clique, the fanbase. You have the merch, and you have made friends who are just as obsessed as you are.

And your fave does something horrible.

Of course, being a fan of something/someone is all apart of the experience of entertainment. My dad gets excited when a new Star Wars comes out, my mum is in love with Cillian Murphy in Peaky Blinders and even bought a coaster with his face on. My brother loves watching angry white guys scream at games and use the N and F words liberally and experiences cognitive dissonance constantly. I have had my experiences being obsessed with things and people like Tom Hiddleston, Benedict Cumberbatch, Glee, Marvel, Disney, the cast of SKAM, you name it.

I am a firm believer of enjoying something you love. Do not be ashamed of listening to music that a lot of people hate, read that book that people have been saying is shit. But please, please be aware of the people you are a fan of. My advice? Don’t become obsessed. It’s hard, the internet is so accessible now that it’s very easy to be whisked up in the madness that is fandom and celebrity culture. But the consequences are dangerous. You’ve seen the defense against Logan Paul from his fans, the way fans of footballers and rockstars send sexual assault victims death threats because they dared speak out about their experiences. The environment is too toxic at this point and I just don’t want to contribute to it anymore.

The best thing is to remind yourself that this person is a human. It may seem ridiculous to say it, to even think it because of course you know that. Don’t talk down to me Hollie! (I know I’m sorry). But reminding yourself of this small fact is such a powerful tool to combat this blind faith.

Person is a human.

Person may say and do things I do not like.

Person is a someone I do not know. (As much as you think you know Person, you really do not know them).

You have to know when to stop supporting someone, when to identify what they did was wrong, and not to change the rules because it’s Person. I’ve started to really embrace this new way of thinking about celebrities. I used to see them for the first time in a film, and then Google them for the rest of the night. This sort of came to a halt after SKAM ended, and people started doing the same to the actors, some of whom were underage. I began to feel uncomfortable knowing so much about these kids. I didn’t want to know the names of their siblings, or what school they went to, or if they were out shopping right this second (???).

Maybe I just don’t care about it all anymore, maybe I’m not cool anymore. But I do love stuff, and I love supporting artists on Patreon and ‘liking’ Youtubers videos when I’ve genuinely enjoyed their content. I will support and enjoy being entertained by actors/musicians/Youtubers. But I cannot be a ‘big fan’ of a person anymore. And if a person who’s work I have enjoyed in the past turns out to be awful, I will remain critical and mature in my decision to stop supporting them or not.

I hope this post does not come across as a preachy way of telling you not to like things, or to stop liking someone because they’re a bit of a dickhead. Stan whoever you want, buy all the merch, do whatever makes you feel happy. But don’t fall down the rabbit hole. They see what you do, and if they truly are a horrible person, they will use your love to their advantage.


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Youtube Channels I’m Loving Right Now

So Youtube takes up a lot of my time. But hey, it’s a thing you can do while multi-tasking. I write a lot of my blog posts with Youtube in the background, and these are the channels I get most excited about when they upload!

Conan Gray

Conan has one of the most beautiful channels on Youtube. There, I said it. He uses his passion for art to make meaningful and creative content that is honestly what I love about Youtube itself. Plus, this boy is cute as a button.

Billy Maier

I’ve only just found Billy recently after the heartbreak that was SKAM ending. Thankfully, I can now live vicariously through a teenage boy somewhere in the United States. Billy is uploading videos almost daily of himself reacting to each episode of SKAM. Not only are his reactions hilarious and dramatic, he also just understands very easily what this show is about, and I love how he picks up on things quickly (because I certainly didn’t!) This video is by far my favourite because it was one of the things he got hilariously wrong.


Cheyenne Barton

Cheyenne has definitely been my inspiration for working on my bullet journal. While I’m trying to find my own style and ways I can make my bullet journal my own, Cheyenne’s flip through videos and monthly plan with me’s are great to stick on while you’re working, even just for background noise. I especially love the attention to detail to her doodles, and even just the chatty parts when she talks of memories she’s given spreads to.


Jenna Marbles

I have been subscribed to Jenna Marbles for years and I have always loved her videos, but in the last few months I have begun cry laughing at the videos she has been releasing, especially the ones that include her boyfriend, Julien. While they have slightly different senses of humour, they compliment each other so well to the point where they make each other laugh, which is the best kind of comedy.



Dark Squidge is the second channel of popular youtuber Tomska, a comedy filmmaker who is also known for animation (but refuses to call himself an animator). While his main channel videos take a considerably longer time to make what with budgets, production crews and sponsors, his side channel weekly vlogs are videos I get excited for every Monday/Tuesday and are hilarious and sad at the same time…depending on what type of week it is. He also just got a puppy!!


Share in the comments what channels you’re loving at the moment! I’m always welcome to recommendations!

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I can’t believe a week of Nanowrimo has already passed.

And since this is the first November in a long time where I’ve had lots and lots of free time, I wanted to set an even harder challenge than usual and aim to reach 50,000 words a few days before November 30th.

So far, we’re looking good.


The first few days of writing your novel are, for me, the best days. I’m so excited to unravel a story that I don’t want to stop. I know the basic premise but I haven’t figured out each and every scene, so one will just come to me and I’ll think “Right! Get it on the page!” I’ve only recently delved into the world of novel planning and so far I really enjoy it. I began one for Royal Blood, but then suddenly November 1st arrived and I was spending too much time on the plan and not enough on the actual story.

At the moment, I’m just letting a million thoughts enter my brain, a lot of ‘What if THIS happened’ moments and then just letting it happen because hey, it’s just a first draft!

So Thursday 3rd November was the most productive writing day. The previous day I’d been in Oxford all day, and so needed to play catch up. However, I got so in the zone that I managed to beat Friday’s goal as well! I’m currently one day ahead, and working towards the next day’s goal each day, which is a pace I’d like to keep.

Of course, every week there are distractions, and this week was the reality television show Dance Moms. I used to be into the show so much a few years ago, but I stopped watching when I couldn’t binge watch because I’d watched them all (and because I’d discovered The Real Housewives of Orange County), but now I’m back down the rabbit hole and it’s awful. It eats up writing time, and so I’m trying to use it as a reward rather than as a thing that could physically minimize MS Word.

I’ve been letting music and Pinterest inspire me the most, as usual, and so;




If you want to know more about my novel, I wrote a little summary in my Nanowrimo intro post. How is your novel going? Do you find having a deadline works for you? Good luck and see you in week two!

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Monthly Favourites: May

May, the month where the weather can’t decide what it’s doing…at least here in England. Is it raining so hard you have to sail home from work? Or are you dusting the cobwebs off the BBQ for an all-out Sunday garden party? Whatever the weather, I’ll probably be reading, writing, and on Twitter. This is May.

The Raven King by Maggie Stiefvater


This is it. It’s the end of The Raven Cycle. I anticipated this book so much and I was so ready for what was about to come, and I loved every second of it. Maggie Stiefvater’s writing is so poetic and deep that I swear these teenage characters are too intelligent for their own good. The Raven Cycle is a vibrant story with well developed characters and such imaginative scenes that your aesthetic heart will weep. I wrote a review for the last book here.

Eurovision (BBC)


The older and more engrossed in books and youtube I become, the less television I’ve begun to watch. We don’t even have a TV in our house with channels anymore, just a giant screen to hook Netflix up to. But when it’s that time of year, you’ve gotta bring out the flags, the face paints, and the friends.

Eurovision, for all you Non-Europeans, is an experience. A spectacular whereby each country sends an artist to perform an outrageously cheesy song and aim to win that year’s contest. It’s flamboyant, political, and silly, and each country has it’s own commentator. United Kingdom gets to enjoy the voice of Graham Norton, who persistently gets drunk throughout the competition until he’s basically saying whatever he wants. Just put Eurovision into Youtube and enjoy.



Speaking of Youtube, who here wants to get fitter without feeling awful? I am CONSTANTLY on that on and off again healthy lifestyle and I’m getting sick and tired of being sick and tired. Blogilates, or Cassey, is an entrepreneur and lifestyle expert. Giving accurate and helpful advice as well as fantastic, motivating workouts, Cassey understands that you can’t always afford the gym or have weights just lying around waiting for you. Instead of berating you for not drinking your kale smoothie, she wants you to celebrate your body, and listen to it. Some of these workouts are great for just before work or a boring hour on a Sunday!

The Stone Roses


You know when you’re about to go to a gig that you’ve been waiting for for so long, that you end up listening to them non-stop as a sort of build up? The Stone Roses have been in my life ever since I was young – thanks to my parents. And this year, they’re releasing a new album and doing a few dates up in Manchester, and GUESS WHO GOT TICKETS? If you haven’t heard of The Stone Roses, they’re a band of five guys from Manchester who became a sensation in the 90’s during the time my parents were in the twenties. They were working class and Northern and everything a frustrated nation embodied. They are my parents’ youth, and I can’t wait to share that with them in a few weeks.

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TTT // Fave Sites That Aren’t About Books

I didn’t realise that my online life has been completely consumed by books.

Until now.

Almost ALL the sites I use are for a bookish reason, and the delights the Hell outta me. But while leading an online book life, there is a tiny amount of room for everything else. My life is nothing but online, which some might say isn’t great. But living in a life time where we’re dependent on the internet to tell us everything, how can I say that my life is not online?


Pinterest is probably my most visited website that is no way affiliated with books. I use Pinterest because I’m all about that visual. I use it for writing, for dreaming, for aspiring. I use it to purely indulge in places I want to see, clothes I want to own, and hair I want to have. It’s choc full of ideas and life hacks and pictures of beautiful people. I have multiple boards on season aesthetics as well as how I want my life to be (particularly living in Paris).


Would it be a crime to not have Netflix on this list? Probably. Netflix has literally saved my life from a life of internet piracy. While the site doesn’t have all of my fave shows (and annoyingly varies from region to region), I’ve still found loads of great films and shows that I didn’t even know existed because they were foreign or indie. Some great shows/movies on Netflix at the moment are Jongens, Shadowhunters, GBF, Brooklyn Nine Nine, Clueless.


I am such a sucker for languages. In school, I was at the top of my class in French and Welsh (not to brag), but when I moved schools, I was put in the naughty kid class to catch up on what I missed from being at a Welsh school and well…my education suffered. Now I’m an adult, I really miss learning languages and I wish I’d done GCSE’s in them. Enter Duolingo. While I don’t get a qualification at the end, I get to have some interactive learning fun with points and rewards, and can even put it on my CV!



I think it might be a bit weird if I don’t mention Spotify. Spotify is life. Music is life. I can’t remember what I did before Spotify; I think I had multiple Youtube tabs open and just listened to music videos? Or, I only listened to the music on my Ipod, which I do now, but only in situations where there’s no internet (which ain’t often). Spotify has my writing playlists, my pre-drinking playlists, my shower singing playlists. My favourite albums, artists, and bands. And while some songs I love aren’t on there, it’s safe to say that Spotify is the driving force to my online browsing.



So I definitely use Youtube for books. I’m not gonna lie about that, but it’s only around 30% of my watching time. The rest? Actual nonsense. Stuff that, I don’t need to watch, but I want to watch. Like vlogs, vlogs of people on holiday in Disneyland. I LIVE for these vlogs. Videos of people playing games that I don’t even play myself anymore (curse you danandphilgames). Videos that make fun of films, make fun of online typos, make fun of thirsty comments. Honestly, without Youtube, I’d probably have so much more free time. It’s nothing to do with books, and I love it.


Are you sure you want to put this Hollie? Are you sure that Tumblr is nothing to do with books? Well, touche, Tumblr for me is mainly about books; I have a booklr, and all my blog posts posted on here are posted on there as well. HOWEVER, I also have a blog that is purely for reblogging and liking things. I like to call it the ‘trash blog’, because that’s exactly what it is. It serves no purpose other than making me laugh. I reblog memes, funny text posts, cute gifs of celebrities I’m crushing on, and fandom things. So, a lot of Marvel. If anything, it’s a place to fully waste time on if I’m tired from working on important things. So yes, I’m putting Tumblr.


tmlogo_greyThis year has been the year of booking concerts. I’m officially broke and artists are richer all because of me. At one point this month I was buying tickets for two different acts at the same time. Ticketmaster is one of the reasons why I have no money and I don’t regret it at all. People I’m seeing; Stone Roses, Selena Gomez, Panic! At The Disco, The 1975, Fall Out Boy (plus more at Reading Festival).

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Does this count? So I check my emails everyday making Outlook one of my most frequented sites. Everyone has emails…I feel it would be silly for me not to put this. Anyway, I mainly use it for job hunting and receiving review copies of books from publishers. I very rarely receive emails from friends or people just wanting to chat. Who does anymore?


Let’s face(book) it, Facebook has become old news. As mentioned in a Parents React video by The Fine Brothers, Facebook has become the social media site for the older generation. It’s easy to use, kinda boring, and full of minion memes. I hate it, however, I live for group chats. I am constantly in multiple, hence the reasoning for FB being on this list. If group chats didn’t exist, I would have got rid of my account ages ago.


This site is a godsend. I use it for everything, especially helping me get to sleep. Want to feel like you’re at the beach? Sat around a campfire? On a balcony in the rain? Soundrown has everything, all on a very accessible site with clean features made to look minimal and effortless.


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The Liebster Award


The Liebster Award is a fantastic way to find new blogs to love and learn about. I have never been nominated for a blog award before so this is such a surprise! I was nominated by the lovely likesof93, thank you so much!

Here are some rules for when you’re nominated:

  • Thank the blogger(s) who nominated you
  • Answer the 11 questions the blogger gives you
  • Nominate 5-11 bloggers that you think are deserving of the award
  • Let the bloggers know you nominated them
  • Give them 11 questions of your own

Here are the A’s to likesof93’s Q’s:

1. Who is you favourite YouTuber?

This is HARD. I’m currently subscribed to 133 channels which, to some people, isn’t much, but for me it’s LOADS. I can’t narrow it down to one, so here’s a few.

fab72c64562a81419c676e2e7b4507f7I love Tashapolis, a booktuber and fangirl extraordinaire. She’s a MUST if you love all things books and fandom.

I also really enjoy Savannah Brown for the witty sarcasm. She uploads great videos on inspiration and nostalgia, as well as having that aestheticism that I can’t get enough of. She’s intelligent, and has some great ideas on creativity.

I’m in love with Damon And Jo at the moment, two best friends who have set out to explore the world. Their travel vlogs are hilarious, beautiful and realistic, and make videos in different languages for your learning pleasure!

For humour, I always go straight to jacksfilms. Not only is his comedy en pointe, but it’s relevant. It speaks to a generation who’s had enough of fart jokes and Adam Sandler.

2. Do you read a lot and if you do what is your favourite book?

I DO. Weirdly though, not as much as I’d like to. I tend to read about one book every week and a half, so roughly about four books a month. Again, I just can’t narrow it down to one, but some of my favourites come from Rainbow Rowell, Jandy Nelson, Leigh Bardugo, and V.E. Schwab.

3. What is your favourite clothing shop?

I don’t enjoy clothes shopping. There, I said it. I love buying things like books and candles and food. When it comes to clothes, it’s either because I need more of e.g. bras, or because I’ve seen something specific that I NEED. But I usually find myself in New Look, a British clothing store that’s not as cheap as Primark, but not as pretentious as somewhere like Urban Outfitters or Hollister.

giphy4. Where would you like to travel next?

SO MANY PLACES. I’ve never left the continent (Europe) and so I’d love to see the U.S, or East Asia. Japan looks beautiful.

5. If you could have a superpower what would it be and why?

I don’t know if it counts as a superpower, but I want to be able to speak every language there is. I love other languages and I can speak fluent English, basic French, and VERY basic Spanish. But I’d love to know Russian and Italian and Dutch and Korean and ALL OF THEM.

6. If you had the whole day off tomorrow what would you spend it doing?

Probably reading. Probably writing. Not going to work, that’s for sure.

7. Name 5 artists or bands you HAVE to see live?

(I read this wrong at first and listed bands I have already seen live. Anyway, I would love to see:

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  • The 1975 (Who I’m seeing this year at Reading Fetival!)
  • Troye Sivan
  • The Killers
  • Twenty One Pilots

Also, this is six, I know.

8. Being in a LUSH shop – do you hate or love the scent?

I work next door to LUSH, and sometimes the smell can be overwhelming. I like smelling individual items, but when they’re altogether, it’s a bit too much.

9. What is your favourite time of the year?

It used to be Christmas, but since working in retail, not so much anymore. I do love the height of summer though! It’s when I have the most time off and meet up with friends who don’t live near me. It’s also a time for festivals and outdoor reading.

10. If you have a bad day what do you do to make it better?

I like to get into my comfort zone. Bed, hot chocolate, and a book or Netflix to keep me company. I love sitting at my bay window in the dead of night with the window open. It’s so peaceful and time seems to move differently there.

11. What is your biggest dream?

I have so many, but my biggest is to be a bestselling author. To be able to go on book tours with other authors and have people want to meet me and talk about my books would be unbelievable. To see people on the train reading my book.

That, and going to Disneyworld, Florida.

And now, here are my questions:

  1. What’s your patronus?
  2. What’s a great go-to comfort book?
  3. Do you or do you not reread books? Why/Why not?
  4. What drew you into starting a blog?
  5. What’s a song that you can’t stop listening to right now?
  6. Do you use the library? Or are you an all-out book buyer?
  7. Fave social media platform? Why?
  8. What book do you NEED to read but haven’t yet?
  9. Can you read on trains/buses/planes?
  10. Recommend a Spotify playlist?
  11. Puppies or Kittens (or BOTH)?

Aaaaand the lovely blogs I’m going to tag and who definitely deserve this award are:

If any of you have already been nominated then I’m sorry, just means you’re twice as great!

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Monthly Favourites: April


I’m still not great at these opening titles. Hell, I don’t think I’ll ever be. But this month was filled with spectacular online interaction that I hope won’t ever stop. Of really using the internet for it’s full potential, and for writing and reading like nothing I’ve ever done. This is April.

Radio Silence by Alice Oseman


I mention this book in so many of my blog posts because it’s just THAT GOOD. A British university student, Alice Oseman is well on her way to having a list of publications full of five stars. She writes realistic, stressed out teenagers who deal with school, parents, and the future. Radio Silence, if you haven’t heard me natter on about it before, is a novel about Frances Janvier, a girl with straight A’s who doesn’t know what she truly wants. She meets Aled Last, a quiet older boy who’s drowning in a sea of pressure and other people’s plans for him. Radio Silence is a great portrayal of boy/girl platonic friendships, and how school is not the be all end all. My review for it is long and right here. 

Deadpool (2015) Dir. Tim Miller


I finally watched a movie, everyone. Round of applause to the girl who finally put her book down for two hours and didn’t watch Youtube videos.

Deadpool is a movie I’ve been really looking forward to, despite not seeing it until April. It turns out, not many family members want to see an 18 rated film with you. I’m not surprised, and I struggled to find people to see it with who hadn’t already, so when I finally got to watching it was in the comfort of my lonesome, with no embarrassing side glances at the person sat next to me.

I loved it, but my only criticism is that is was way too short. But still, beautifully done, and by beautiful, I mean great close up shots of Ryan Reynolds ass. I’m so glad he worked had to get it done properly (the movie, not his ass); Deadpool swears, breaks the fourth wall, has lots of sex, and loves gratuitous violence, and it would be a shame to leave that out of a movie that was about him. How they’re going to slot him into a Marvel movie, I have no idea.

American Crime Story: The People v O.J Simpson


During the trial of O.J Simpson, I was 1-2 years old. I have no recollection of the internationally broadcast trial, and was still in the dark about most things even today. I’ve heard passing jokes on comedy shows, but that’s about it. Therefore, when I got down to watching The People v O.J Simpson I was actually shocked at the outcome and the ramifications both sides had for their motivations. A gripping insight into the mind of society on such an important and sensitive topic.

Twitter Hashtag Chats


Since starting this blog, I have become completely immersed in the internet book community, and one thing that I’ve found incredibly engaging and down right fucking fun are Twitter chats, hosted and taken part by book bloggers alike. You find new friends, new blogs, and some stellar book recommendations. Some great ones that I take part in, all in which are hosted by British bloggers and so are at times suitable for people in the GMT/BST timezone, are:

  • #UKYACHAT: Hosted by @lucythereader on Fridays at 8pm GMT/BST
  • #SUNDAYYA: Hosted by @_sectumsemprah every other Sunday at 6pm GMT/BST
  • #STORYCRAFTER: Hosted by @writerology on Sundays at 8pm GMT/BST
  • #FEMINISMINYA: Hosted by @helloiammariam on Tuesdays at 7:30pm GMT/BST
  • #FAIRYCHAT: Hosted by @fairyloot every 2nd Saturday of the month.

I try and attend each chat every week, #storycrafter being the easiest because I’m NEVER busy on Sunday evening, and #feminisminya the most difficult because I’m ALWAYS busy on a Tuesday night.

If there’s any twitter chats that you attend that would be great for bloggers in other timezones, share them in the comments!

Kingsley – ItsKingsleyBitch


When the internet gets crazy, all you need is a good laugh, and that’s what Kingsley is here for. Hilarious in his expressions and reactions, there is nothing like commenting on people’s ridiculousness as they reply to celebrity’s photos with vulgar and explicit content. Thirsty Thursday, a weekly segment on Kingsley’s channel, sees viewers send in ‘thirsty’ comments they’ve seen on social media and basically call them out.

And the shit they say is hilarious.

I’m not going to embed a video on my post because the videos are so explicit it’s hilarious. So, if you’re over 18, I’d click the link to his channel up there and prepare to wet yourself from laughter.

Fall Out Boy


It seems that April is going to also be my most expensive month, with concert tickets going on sale left, right, and centre. One in particular that I’m excited about is Reading Festival, a three day music extravaganza that I’ve never been to. While there are some fantastic acts I’m eager to see, I bought the tickets because of this band.

Fall Out Boy have been in my life for the last ten years; always present, always in my ears. And now, I finally get to see them. I’ve been listening to the American Beauty/American Psycho album on repeat for the whole month, and I don’t intend to stop until August.

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